Let’s be honest here:  Planning for a wedding is as exciting as it is overwhelming. If you didn’t know that before getting engaged, you probably do now. Your wedding will be a wonderful day riddled with gaiety and love but planning it can be challenging.  We have found a few tips that most people don’t realize when they are beginning to plan. While they are little things it’s better you know about them now so you’re better prepared. Here are a few things no one tells you about planning a wedding.

  • It’s Hard

Whether you’re throwing a big party or a casual party, it’s hard to organize it. There are so many things and decisions you need to take care off and it may get difficult-especially without the help of a professional. Make sure to find the right vendors who can help make your day run smoothly.

  • Your Wedding Isn’t Your Wedding

Your wedding is your day but someone could easily make it about them. Many people will try to add to your day and end up interfering with your plans, although usually with good intentions. However, these unwanted additions usually don’t turn out as well as the person may hope. Your friends and relatives may contribute solicited (or unsolicited) ideas and opinions which may make  you feel obligated to please everyone to avoid offending them. So, it’s either you take a stand or allow everyone to have a say in your wedding. Neither is easy, we know.

  • Weddings Are Expensive

We encourage you to have a wedding based on your budget, however weddings do cost a lot of money. When doing a wedding on a budget, think about where it is important to spend the money for you . For some people, the food may be the most important thing to spend the money on. For others, it may be the entertainment or decorations. Spend the money where you think it will be most impactful for your day.

  • An Expense Always Pops Up

When planning a wedding, we advise you to set money aside for unforeseen expenses because something that isn’t in your original budget can come up when you least expect it. 

  • You May Fight with Your Partner

Believe it or not, this is quite common. You may have different opinions with your partner about how the day will go. You and your partner may need to find a compromise to keep the wedding plans on track. These decisions will make you a stronger couple as you begin to build a healthy marriage!

  • Not Everyone Will Remember Your Wedding

Your wedding may be the center of the universe for you but it’s not the center of everyone else’s. Be mindful of that. Weeks after the wedding is over, don’t be surprised when people even start forgetting about the little details of your event.

 

What we’re trying to say here is, your wedding can never be as important to your guests as it is to you, so put your happiness first before anyone else’s. Make your wedding as memorable as you can make it for you! Make it a wedding that lives long in your memory and heart.

 

Creating a fun and memorable wedding is hard but we can make it easier for you. With the help of our company, Paul Michaels Events, we will make your wedding just right for you, so that it will be your most exciting and memorable day! We’re a professional wedding DJ company based in Chicago, and crafting a celebration is where we excel!

 

Call us today on 773-850-1763, or visit our website, https://www.paulmichaelsevents.com/, and see what we can do for you. Reach out to us and we’ll make your wedding a day something to remember and a moment forever embedded in your heart.

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